Soooooooooooooooooooooooooo…I’m gone from Facebook…again.
This time for good. I do not play he said she said and I am too old for
electronic battles. I got real life
battles to deal with.
So I am on FB Saturday afternoon trying to play catch up when I
head over to my ladies group and evidently TDP and HKS are having some type of
fb argument. I can’t see anything TDP
writes because he blocked me ages ago. *shrug* Turns out it is a blessing, God
is awesome! Since I can’t see it then I can’t be pulled into it.
However, one of my fb buddies tried to pull me into it. I
was like, wait…what? Why are you calling
me out and you know all the dirt? Is what I was thinking. *chuckle* I basically
gave a “no comment” comment and exited the group. Not that I didn’t want to say
something, because game recognizes game, but I knew it wasn’t my place.
Anyway what struck me as always was how quick the women in
the group were to jump on HKS. Long story short he’s moving him and his son to
VA to live with her. As in now. Um, school ends in about a month. Why is he
yanking his kid out of school this close to the end of the school year? That was my thought. Not why isn’t HKS
responding to him about the move. That’s his son, not hers.
Everyone kept saying, but there is a child involved. I’m
thinking, yeah, his child. Because if the situation were reversed then everyone
would be looking at her like she was crazy for yanking her kid out of school
before the school year ended and moving to another state to depend on some man.
I know this because we already had a similar scenario on BA.
*chuckle*
Anyway, it threw me into another round of self examination.
Because my response and thoughts were so totally different from everyone else’s.
I mean, I do not think of myself as a bitch. But considering the way all the
other women were just jumping on HKS, I was wondering had I turned into a bitch
without realizing it.
I guess what I am trying to figure out now at the age of 44
years is how much compassion do you show a person? All the other ladies were just so concerned
about the child and his father. Me on the other hand:
Seriously. I couldn’t care less about his situation. Maybe I
know too much of their back story. Maybe
it is the fact that I didn’t attend his birthday party but sent a gift, and
notified him ahead of time that I couldn’t attend due to illness and apologized
AND he was still pissy months later.
That told me a lot about his character right there. I just shook my head when he called himself subliminally cussing me out about it on twitter.
*shrug* He’s damn near 40 years old and mad because someone didn’t attend his
birthday party. Seriously? Yeah. Ok.
Seriously, if you send me a gift on my birthday instead of
coming to see me because you are sick, I ain’t going to be mad with you
depending on the gift. *chuckle*
But back to me being a bitch. Am I just a cold unfeeling bitch? I guess
that will be one of the things for me to work on and think about. I never
thought I was. I thought I was compassionate and caring but the whole time they
were talking about HKS, I just kept thinking “That’s his kid, not hers. She
owes him and that kid zilch.”
How much compassion do you show to him and his child in this
situation? He’s not moving to Virginia to BE with her, he’s moving him and his
child IN with her. And I am being left with the impression he doesn’t have a
job and is still married to his wife. Oh the wife is staying here in public
housing.
He ain’t married to me then he can’t live with me and I don’t
do men with young children. AND I DAMN FOR SURE DON’T DO MEN WHO ARE MARRIED TO
ANYONE OTHER THAN ME!
And what the rest of them don’t know is that those two
sometimes make each other mad in order to enhance their sex lives. When HKS and
I were friends she would be pissed with him and they’d do and say things to
each other to make each other madder. Then they’d get together for a sex session and
work all that aggression out. Then they
would be cool again. It works for them.
So while I’m contemplating my bitch status those two may be
somewhere burning a hole in a floor. Maybe.
One thing I am 90% sure of is that this ain’t over by a long shot and I
am excusing myself from the drama. I am going to miss the shenanigans. Oh well. To everything a season under Heaven. I guess my season with FB is over.
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