I know! Back so
soon? *chuckles* Well something popped up in my women’s group
on Facebook that I wanted to spit out so I can get it out of my head.
So I’ve blogged about HKS and her relationship with
TDP. After which TDP and I stay far away
from each other. Amazing how small the
internet can be sometimes. You’d think
that would be easy but with so many friends in common sometimes we do come face
to face at which time I ease right on out the way. Knowing him adds nothing positive to any
person’s life. I’m much happier this
way.
About a year ago, I guess, he and some buddies started a
new group on Facebook. One of the ladies
from our group added me without me knowing who all the participants were. Some of the people in the group are
cool. However, when I saw his name pop
up I immediately turned off notifications for the group and never entered it
again. I knew from that moment that that
group was going to be about female bashing. And that’s what it has finally become.
It started off great.
The women in my group kept coming starting posts in our group about how
much fun they were having and how funny this one or that one was. I just kept thinking to myself, Wait for
it. It is coming. TDP was and is an asshole. He can’t keep it hidden but for so long.
Well over the last six months all they do now is complain
about the group and try to talk themselves into staying apart of it. *smh* Only women who stay in that group are women
with self-esteem issues.
One of the
group actually broke from it. I’m hoping
she sees the correlation between how her outlook improved once she left the
group. TDP added her back in whether she
wanted to be there or not. Then her
outlook took a turn down again. Now
she’s left the group again. I hope she
connects the dots.
One of the other women in the group left and for a very good
reason, one of the guys in the group took a picture of her and photoshopped it
without her permission. Then he
apologized to her in pm while still deriding her and stirring the pot for
others to do the same publicly. I’d have
screenshot that apology. Posted it in
the group so they could see him for the ass-shat he is and bounced. She just bounced. TDP told her to suck it up and added her back
to the group. Where they jumped in on
deriding her some more.
They had a post in the group shaming fat women. Did I mention TDP is fat? At least the last time I saw him he was. Yeah.
Then there was the post about women who don’t swallow semen needing to
kill themselves. All nasty negative
posts against women. No one with a
healthy self-esteem, man or woman, would stay in such a poisonous place.
One of the women who is in the group but doesn’t stop by
much even dropped them with a little knowledge that they are ignoring or maybe
they love it. Anyway she said there is
always a lot of drama around TDP.
So all that was my segue into what’s going on now.
So TDP has a girlfriend and all the women in my group who
are also in his group love her. They
THINK she’s great. *smh side eyeing* There is talk of including her into our
group. *rolls eyes to my bangs* They ain’t learned from TG, A, or V. I blogged about TG here. A and V, I didn’t bother to blog about. It wasn’t worth the energy. But they all thought all three were great
adds and each showed their true asses in the end.
Now A and V I really didn’t have any feeling on one way or
the other. But TG I knew wasn’t going to
work and she is the one who single handedly brought down our first group. When they mentioned adding TDP’s girlfriend
to our group, I got the exact same feeling I got when they were talking about
adding TG. This ain’t going to end well
for them.
For me and others it is no big deal. I have friends and family who I am close to
in real life. But for others in that
group, we are their only girlfriends. If
our group gets shut down like the other one, then they literally have no other
friends to be with.
I know, we’re on the internet but we do phone calls, send
cards to each other during the holidays, go on trips together, and do video slumber
parties. They really are a great
close-knit group of women. And we’ve
been going strong for over three years.
And I see it about to hit a huge wall called TDP’s drama
interjected by his girlfriend.
One of the women who don’t deal with TDP’s group either
said the following about his girlfriend, she posts too many selfies and she had
to unfollow her. She didn’t have time
for someone who needed to be told she was pretty that much.
I sat on my side of the screen chuckling. Then one of the women in the group said that
2-3 selfies a month wasn’t that much.
Well the one who said that is the same one who spoke up for TG, A, and
V. A and V turned on her personally on
her wall. TG was well, you read the
outcome. So her friend vetting skills
over the internet are practically nil in my mind. And the woman who made the comment about the
selfies only gets on Facebook 2-3 times a week.
So if someone who only gets on fb 2-3 times a week sees that many
selfies from one person then that person is posting a lot of selfies. But women with self-esteem issues are what
surround TDP so that makes sense.
So what I’m going to do is the same thing I did for the
other three women, nothing. These are
not my lessons to learn. These lessons
are for the ones who have the most to lose.
They should be guarding the group closely. They’ll learn. Hopefully.
I got other stuff to do and I’m going to get on that right
now.
*salutes monitor with cheese danish*
