So it is time for another internet hiatus. *chuckle* Some ish has popped off online that all
started on November 1. I was over on OHN
and some drama went down and now the owner is shutting down/selling his site.
*blink blink*
It all stemmed from a letter that was supposed to be from an
anonymous reader to the Men’s Round Table.
Come to find out one of the men on the RT did it to put his girl on
blast. His girl is also part of the OHN
community. The RT dumped on her without
knowing who they were dumping on. Her friends
came out to defend her. Then she
defended herself and then the bf outed himself and it all went downhill from
there.
Then Beth took it upon herself to bring up our supposed to
be secret ladies group and threw the bitches word out there. A word I wear with pride when I need to but
whatever. Until I can ask for and
receive what I ask for without being a bitch I don’t mind being called one.
*shrug* Fugs to give about that word
equal zero. However, the way she did it
was uncalled for. Then it came out that
we STILL have a snitch among the women.
We think we've found her but we won’t know for sure unless more info of
our goings on are leaked. It has just
been a mess for the past four days. The
snitch was feeding Beth word for word and Beth was calling Stan. A BIG OLE MESS!
I posted in our supposed secret group that someone needs to
let Stan know that he needs to check Beth if he is really trying to sell the
site with its readership intact and then I dipped out. Let the smoke clear and the dust settle. Beth over on Twitter talking about she wants
to punch someone. *smh*
I’m like wow! And she
keeps making references to our group as a cliche. I’m like, yeah. There are plenty of cliches on OHN. You fall in with who you fit in with. She wouldn't fit in with our group. She use to be a nice person but I've noticed
over the last year that she is turning mean and really bitter. I’m attributing it to her son growing up and
cutting those apron strings whether she wants them cut or not.
She’s in our cooking group and we were talking about what we
were making for dinner one evening. She
made a comment that she hadn't been cooking much. She said the last time she cooked her son didn't bother to come home. I’m like, he’s
20 get use to that. It maybe what is
making her so mean this past year or it may be something totally unrelated that
I know nothing about. But truly it has
been a mess.
I’m like, really people are this messed up because we got a
secret group. Everyone in the group ain’t
even OHNawlers so again I didn’t see the big deal. I’m part of two other secret groups and I don’t
mention what goes on in those groups with the women and vice versa.
But now that I’m home with my feet up, I’ve had some time to
put things into perspective. Now I ain’t
saying this is what is happening but it would make a lot more sense than what
seems to be going on. I was sitting
here thinking what if the drama is being pumped up to up readership so that he
can get a good price for his site? If
that is true, I ain’t even mad. He has a
young family and we are in a recession.
Black folks are always the hardest hit financially whenever the economy
takes a downturn. And we are the last to
recover financially. Though we spend
more money. *smh*
So if that is what is up then my peacekeeping butt needs to
have a seat. If not then I need to lie
down because this ish is completely uncalled for. Because the drama over our little group has
been ongoing for more than a minute. This
ain’t the first time Beth has said something about us. Since she isn’t the topic most of the time
her source(s) are lying azz lying to her. *smh*
It amazes me that adults can be so… petty about such a
simple thing as a group of ladies who have things in common who have their own
meeting place. We ain’t the only
OHNawlians with our own secret group.
Heck! TDP got his own secret
group. He and I don’t get along so it
phases me not that I am not invited to join.
That’s why I don’t understand why Beth has been so upset about the
group. When she talks about what happens
between her and the OHNawlians she does get along with on gchat, text, etc
nobody is mad. That’s why I am so
confused about this animosity toward our little group.
And I hope the chick(s) doing the flapping of the gums know what goes around truly does come back around. We actually put our trust in each other to
not spread around what goes on in there.
Not that we are doing anything that spectacular but we talk about
personal stuff. Fears, hopes, illnesses,
family issues and the like. We take
turns buoying each other up. And that is
really awesome. But the snitch(es) ought
to be ashamed of themselves.
Again, I’m a just chill and work on my book for
NaNoWriMo. I’m behind two days already. I was just fine until Saturday and then I got
lazy. This is why I’m cutting this short
so I can get back to work.
The drama don’t end there.
Me and TPL are on the outs but that is a post for another day. Good thing I can play my zynga games on their
website.
*tips water glass at monitor*
